March 8, 2007
News@EssentialMom.com

In this issue:
Motherhood & Self
Fern Lodge

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"If you have been brought up all your life, being told you have wonderful choices, you tend, when things go wrong, to assume you made the wrong choices..."

--Judith Warner --

Marie Laguerre-Lewis and Nicole Aliev of Motherhood and Self reach out to moms who are at the point in their lives where they are assessing, and in many cases, criticizing the choices they have made.

Whether they work outside the home or not, women have to answer the same question: how do I provide the best care for my family? This issue is not only heavily influenced by personal values and situations, but also by judgment from the media, relatives, and in some cases, other moms. In the workplace, success is dependent on efficiency, and on how little family life 'interferes' with productivity. At home, the pressure for moms is to be as close to perfect as possible to 'justify' the personal choices they have made.

The many roles women play out (partner, family member, friend, lover) all serve to shape how mothers critique themselves. From these thoughts comes an individual reality that influences behavior and self worth. However, this reality is actually fluid. Behavior and self image can be positively shifted by changing perceptions and opinions about one's self.

Motherhood and Self coaches women in breaking down the internal and external factors that influence their experiences of being a mother. In the workshops, participants find not only commonality and community, but begin a deeply personal journey. Mothers come away with a greater understanding of the factors that shape or break their confidence as a parent, spouse, professional and woman. They are also given the tools to design a manageable and realistic action plan to achieve greater balance and build on the passions in their life.

If coming to a Motherhood and Self workshop is not on your resolutions list, it should be. Cost: $125 for workshop, materials, and one free post-workshop coaching session.

Register online at www.motherhoodandself.com, or call 914-381-2010.
*This article was sponsored by Motherhood & Self
Time for a break?

There has been much talk from the mommy crowd lately about the need for a vacation from vacation-- February 'break' with the kids causing a need for a break FROM the kids.

So, in case your Valentine's Day fell short, your spring vacation seemed far from relaxing, or if the threat of another few weeks of cold weather and flurries is testing your patience, consider slipping away to this delicious spot for a quick, easy, quiet and RELAXING moment.

Visit Fern Lodge

"In the midst of the majestic Adirondack Mountains, overlooking pristine Friends Lake, there stands a wondrous guesthouse where luxurious Adirondack lodging, sumptuous beds, indulgent baths and unforgettable breakfasts join in an atmosphere of rustic elegance and lakeside living."


During your visit to our luxury Adirondack resort lodging, simply relax in the elegant Adirondack Great room with its vaulted log ceilings and expansive stone fireplace. Other common areas at the resort include an outdoor fireplace in a screened in porch, a wine cellar, game table, a state-of-the-art movie theatre, a sauna and fitness equipment. If you are interested in getting out and touring the area surrounding our lodge, read some of our wonderful sample itineraries for daily activities to suit any fancy.

Your Adirondack accommodation is a choice of three intimate guest rooms that are uncommonly comfortable-- both rustic and elegant, even magnificent. All guest accommodations have king-size beds, large stone fireplaces and lake and/or mountain views. All rooms have private luxury baths with deep-soaking Jacuzzi tubs, and all rooms have a small wet-bar, refrigerator and television. The nightly rate includes an unforgettable breakfast, nightly turndown service, Wi-Fi and a wide variety of on-site activities.

So consider treating yourself-- an early Mother's Day present, a Spring gift, or a, "hey, what's your name again" moment with the husband-- reconnect and enjoy yourselves!

For more information on Fern Lodge, visit www.thefernlodge.com

*This article was sponsored by The Fern Lodge

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